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Posted on: Wednesday 09/26/2018 02:16:56

To quote Daffy Duck, " So shoot me now!" I'm on my way to a major meltdown. I made the mistake of telling my sister about what was in paperwork I received from my lawyer yesterday regarding a 12th hour cross motion filed by a lawyer the Antichrist ex-wife hired last minute. I have to respond to it in detail and there will be a trial I have to appear for nest month. I won't bother you with details.

Anyway, I have spent the last hour and a half enduring my sister talking and mostly yelling about it. She was advising me on what I should and should not do and say and questioning me on aspects of detailed items. She was telling me about things I or others did wrong with the legal separation 12 years ago, and the divorce last year. She was telling me what my lawyer should do, and what Lucifer's should and should not have access to, and what he can and cannot do. It's been nonstop. At one point I was upstairs changing clothes, picking up my room, and in the bathroom, and she continued to yell at me about all this stuff from the bottom of the stairs. I had walked away from while she was yelling for fuck's sake. 

Does she have any legal training? No. Ever been through a divorce? No. Ever been involved in any legal financial actions? No. So, STFU PLEASE! I think I mentioned in an earlier post that I have been in depression since the closing on the house. It's been getting progressively worse. My psychiatrist has doubled my Seroquil dosage from "regular depression" fighting level to " major bipolar depression" kicking your ass level. I've been in a hole mentally and emotionally. Now I want to crawl into one physically, head first.

  • kittenheel Says:
    I am so sorry about your sister. There are all too many people who are eager for opportunities to tell you how you SHOULD have done it, and it accomplishes exactly nothing, except to alienate the person they're shouting at. Ugh. Stay away from her if you can. She's definitely not helping in an already difficult situation. /homepage

  • lunamor Says:
    ^ This. Just do what you can, man. I am so sorry all this is going on. Your ex wife sounds...well, I can't even say it. Just try and get through it as best you can. /homepage

  • knifeboy Says:
    Thank you, Mary. I am learning that. Jess, I have plenty of words of my own. But please share. I like to learn.

    Update: I stayed very quiet and away from her as much as possible.
    After that I spent 5 1/2 hours in typing and sifting through legal document and personal records to write responses to points in the cross-motion as my lawyer asked. After that I went to bed to sleep with Bosco. When I was called to dinner I went and was a cordial as I could be.

    After that she asked me if I had told my BIL about the happenings when she knew damned well I had not had a chance. I figured she was fishing for the opportunity to get on her soap box again. I simply told her no, and promptly laid down on the sun room sofa without another word and quickly fell asleep until bed time. I didn't sleep much but feel okay today.

    I wish I had married someone I could be sure was much more like you ladies./homepage

  • lunamor Says:
    LOL Mary and me, the man haters? Surely you jest :P

  • kittenheel Says:
    I'm crazy as a shithouse rat. If I were a man, I'd stay away from me.

  • lermontov Says:
    Marry for money next time bro

  • knifeboy Says:
    Whatever I do, I decided a year ago that I will not get married again. I may find what looks, feels, and seems like love, but I am done with the being married thing. No offense, ladies. The Knife is pretty gun shy on that at this point./homepage
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